November 30, 2012

Moms' Time Notes - November 30, 2012


Announcements: Christine R.

·        Next week on December 7, we will be going over report cards. They will be completed electronically and will be due the first week back from Christmas vacation (January 11,).

·        There will be three forms per child due this week

o   attendance records

o   report cards

o   course of study updates.

·        Next week (December 7,) we will be discussing the speech meet and the homeschool fair.

·        If you are late for chapel, remember to have your children sit quietly with you in the moms’ room until chapel is over. If you are consistently late for chapel, leave earlier. Plan on arriving at 8:15.

Announcements: Julie S.

·        On December 14, we will be having our Christmas brunch.

o   There is a signup sheet on the table.

o   Everyone should sign up to bring something.

o   In addition to our normal food items: bread, fruit, veggies, hot dish, there will be a sign-up to bring ingredients for hot waffles.

o   You may sign-up to decorate a table. If you sign up to decorate a table, you will not have to bring a food item.

·        The PSP blog is up. All the moms’ time notes are on the blog: http://gcspsp.blogspot.com/

Brenda S.—Chapter 3 Choosing Gratitude

·        Chapter 3 discussed the sin of ingratitude. What is ingratitude? It is not just a hardened, resentful attitude. It can be letting a window of opportunity pass by. Gradually, we become desensitized. In the book, the example was the ten lepers. Only one showed his thankfulness. The others were probably thankful as well, but did not take the opportunity to express it.  Ingratitude is the fountainhead of all kinds of evils.

The book had five categories that often lead to ingratitude.

1)    Unrealistic expectations. I am thankful, but my blessings are not quite what I hoped for. Also, we may expect others to meet our needs in ways that only the Lord can. It is idolatry when we expect others to take the place of God.

2)    Forgetfulness. Remembering is a big theme in the OT, especially throughout the book of Deuteronomy. The Israelites were often setting up stone monuments as reminders of what the Lord had done for them. Communion is about remembering our salvation

3)    Entitlement. We often take simple blessings for granted as if they were owed to us. We sometimes feel that the things we have are beneath what we deserve.

4)    Comparison.  We not only compare what others have to what we have, but we also compare all the sacrifices we make to what others do or do not do. We may be tempted to remind others of our sacrifices, or to become resentful when we feel others are not sacrificing as much as we are.

5)    Blindness to God’s grace.  In reality, nothing we have is deserved. All good things are evidence of God’s grace in our lives.

The book also had a 30 day challenge. For thirty days, the challenge was not to express anything negative about your husband (or some other person). On the contrary, the challenge was to find something positive to say to your husband about himself and to someone else about him.

If you apply the five areas to your husband, what are the practical implications?

1)    Unrealistic expectations. Do we expect our husbands to constantly meet our demands or work on our projects? Ask yourself, “Am I a princess or a doulas?”

2)    Forgetfulness. Take time together to remember the Lord’s benefits.

3)    Entitlement. Am I thankful for my husband right now?

4)    Comparison. Do you focus on your husband’s day or on your own? Do you compare all the sacrifices you make to the ones he makes?

5)    God’s grace. Do we show grace? Am I a forgiving person? Am I humble?

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